Our mental health is just as important as our physical health. And protecting it is so important, especially when it comes to money. There’s a distinct connection between mental health and money. For a lot of people, money can cause depression, anxiety, and problems within relationships. I’m sure most couples have had at least one argument about money at some point in their relationship.
We work hard for our money and we’re currently working for longer than ever before as retirement ages rise. But sometimes we measure our self-worth and achievements against monetary values. And social media is a big trigger for this. I hold my hands up and say I’ve seen people on Instagram mainly and compared their perceived financial position with my own. Especially as people have been taking more ‘at home’ shots over 2020 when we’ve not been able to go out as much. Seeing someone’s seemingly perfect home, their huge walk-in wardrobe or home gym. But you can never know someone’s financial position accurately.
It’s important to remember you’re only seeing images on face value when you see them online. A survey from Credit Karma found that around 40% of millennials overspend just to avoid fomo and keep up with their friends. This figure is hugely worrying as not only should we not be overspending. But overspending just to keep up with others is not a good reason to do so. But it’s important to realise this when looking at photos online. Someone may have a bad connection between their mental health and money and have put themselves in debt to pay for the item you’re looking at.
Invesp revealed that 41% of shoppers spend impulsively for an item after they’ve seen it on social media. And this connects with the idea of overspending to not miss out. If you spot something on social media that others have it makes you want it more. I know I’ve done it before where I’ve bought something without even thinking twice about it. Digital money doesn’t always feel totally real. This behaviour is incredibly common, especially amount millennials. And it’s why budgeting and spending within your means is so important.
It’s so important to protect your mental health. So if an account is damaging by making you feel bad about money or your financial situation then simply unfollow them. It’s important to fill your social media with positive messages and positive individuals, and not things that will make you feel negative.
It’s always a good idea to reduce your screen time in general, but especially so if social media and being online leaves you feeling negative. If possible take a day (or even an evening) offline and live in the here and now.
When it comes to money be kind to yourself and focus on your own journey. We all make mistakes or find situations tough. But someone could have all the money in the world, but be a horrible person. So if your financial situation isn’t great it doesn’t make you a bad person.
Everyone is at different stages of their financial lives, and we all have different goals. What may be important to you may be different to other people. So you may spend your money in different ways, or save for different things. It doesn’t make your way any better (or worse) than anyone else’s.
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This is such a great post. I think we’ve all been left feeling inadequate thanks to social media. It’s a very warped world we see and we do sometimes need reminding of that x
This post is so important, people connect their worth to how much is in their bank account and FOMO is real. I just unfollow what doesn’t make me happy.
I think that’s why this past year has been strange as there’s been less to have FOMO over, but so true x
Some great tips here and I agree, I have unfollowed a few friends on social media as I felt their post made me feel upset.
I’m glad you felt like you could do that, we need to surround ourselves with things that make us happy or inspire us x
I agree with all these especially unfollowing those who make you feel bad. There are a few accounts I no longer follow because of this.
Really good post, I feel like I ought to get my teenage daughters to read it, as they definitely seem to think that you have to buy things to be happy. Mich x
Such a fabulous post! I need to get my daughter to read this! Even as part of that world, influencers irk me greatly. We all know they have that one perfect spot in their house to take images… but not everything is perfect. It’s the whole ‘you never know what goes on behind closed doors’ scenario! Social media plays a huge part in making people feel worthless, whether financially or just in themselves. You are right, we are all at different stages… so long as we are happy in ourselves, who cares about Joe Blogs! Sim x
I totally agree. I don’t really have one perfect spot in my house to take photos and I don’t mind using photos with some mess or some reality because that’s life x
Such a good post and I have actually unfollowed quite a few people as it’s just not worth me feeling unhappy over
This is a very good post highlighting important points. Social media is the most known platform for advertising and snaring people to do impulse buys. I agree having breaks from technology and taking time out is great for mental health and well being.
I think impulse spending is so tough with all of the adverts that pop up, I really have to try and ignore them x
This is a very important post, highlighting some very important issues. Youre absolutely right that self worth and how much money you have aren’t connected but I think a lot of people struggle with that.
I definitely think there is a connection. I always buy myself a little something if I need a pick me up but thankfully my budget is small!