I love being able to plan, so much so that a lot of our money is automated and regulated. Me and Luke both have our own money each week (or month) to spend as we please. But the vast majority of our money is regular spending and doesn’t change each month.
In our household I get paid monthly and Luke is paid weekly, and we do pool our money together as it works best for us. So most of our bills and subscriptions come from my account where the monthly money is paid into. And most of our regular savings come from Luke’s weekly money. This is why some things I talk about monthly and some things weekly.
Everyone’s regular spending is going to be different, and there’s no right or wrong, but here’s a breakdown of what ours is.
Like most people our biggest regular spend is our mortgage. We’re currently fixed on our rate until early 2025 so it’s not too bad, but this accounts for about 18% of our money.
Then we have the boring bills. We are on council tax band E which is so high for our property (and we did fight it when we moved in), but alas it didn’t work so that’s a big spend (currently £268 a month). Our water bill isn’t too high, and thanks to our solar panels our energy bills are also not too high. We’ve made some changes so that heating our water tank now comes from electricity not gas, so we’ll have to see what our winter gas bills are like.
As Luke is self-employed we have a few extra insurance policies that we pay out for. We have both life insurance and income protection for him to cover us for the worse case scenarios. I’m really lucky to have good life insurance through work so it’s not something we have to pay for ourselves. Then we pay out for public liability business insurance for Luke and tool insurance as he can’t do his work without tools.
The other two insurance policies we pay out for each month are our home and contents insurance, and pet insurance for our furry babies. For our vehicle insurance we actually save money each month into a vehicle pot which covers the annual payments for those policies.
All together we spend around £100 a month on policies (excluding our vehicle savings and any one off policies like travel insurance). Hopefully they’re policies we won’t need to ever use.
We have a full ring system with alarms, cameras and a doorbell so we pay out £8 a month on our subscription to give us full access to all recordings etc.
Each month we pay out four different payments for our mobile phones. We each have SIM only contracts which are around £20 each and then spend around £90 a month on payments for our iPhones. We did them separately as it saves us between £20 and £40 a month and means we can keep hold of our phones for longer without feeling like we need to upgrade.
For fitness we spend £39 a month on my Peloton subscription and it’s worth every single penny. I do on average 9 classes a week across cycling and strength and it’s the longest I’ve ever stuck to anything. We own the bike itself so that’s a payment we don’t have to consider.
All of these entertainment costs are luxuries and something we feel very thankful to be able to spend. We have Disney+ and Prime, but we make those payments annually.
Each month we pay for Cineworld cards as we love going to the cinema. We definitely don’t go as much as we used to when we had one within walking distance, but it still more than pays for itself each month. Then following on the theme of visual entertainment we pay monthly for our TV license, and then a Sky TV package which includes our internet. Our Sky TV service was our household treat when I got my new job back in April and while £90 for TV and internet each month is a lot we do get a lot of use out of it.
The rest of the regular spending on entertainment includes YouTube Premium (£19.99), Spotify family plan (£16.99) and Audible (£8.99).
On opposite ends of the scale we have a regular loan payment every month which is paying off Luke’s work vehicle. Then we have plenty of regular savings including:
We both have our own personal regular savings, for example I have a tattoo fund that gets a regular payment into every week.
Each week we have a set food budget, but our spending alternates. We do a big Ocado shop every other week that tends to use up the weekly budget. Then on the in between weeks we do a much smaller top up shop and put the rest aside for our quarterly Costco trips.
The more ‘fun’ regular spends we have include:
I think posts like this are a great way to help hold yourself accountable. I love that you take the time to break these down and share them with us!
I think it’s genius that you set aside money for gifts AND for holiday food. I’ve never thought of putting back money to buy a turkey or whatnot.
Christmas is an expensive time of the year so it pays to be prepared for everything x
Thank you so much for the breakdown, this is very helpful. At least we can use the numbers as a benchmark. Thanks a lot.
Expenditures planning is very crucial to be in control. I do plan for my regular spending and for my exploratory travels.
It’s interesting to read about your spending habits. As a couple our biggest outgoing is always the groceries. Eating out in Italy is quite reasonable.
I want a ring doorbell and keep looking at getting one. We are on contract with our phones and C is sim only then has our phones as we updrade
For us it makes a big difference for security as well as convenience having a ring doorbell x
This information is a big help to all of us. Thanks for sharing all these with us. Been struggling how to manage my expenses beacuse of inflation!
My son needs to read this post. He’s 17 and needs to learn and appreciate all the things we pay for him.
I definitely didn’t appreciate how many outgoings you had to pay for when I was that age x
his blog post provides an insightful look into how the author and their partner manage their finances by automating and regulating their money. It’s interesting to see how they adapt to having different pay frequencies and pool their resources effectively. The breakdown of their regular spending, especially the discussion about their mortgage and bills, gives readers a practical glimpse into the financial aspects of their lives.
For us the main expenses are like yours, mortgage, insurances, and other household bills. We have additional expenses as we also pay for tutors for the kids and treats. It all adds up so there isn’t much left after that.
Having kids would have a whole other thing to factor into what we spend x
Great breakdown! I am similar, I have some bills on autopay and others I prefer to pay before the first. Everything works out smoothly though making sure bills are paid and extras are covered.
Thank you, Rhian, for your detailed summary of all expenses you are going through in your household.
I learned some new terms you use in England and how you call different utility services.
Thoroughly enjoyed it!
This is a great breakdown and you’ve inspired me to do this tonight with my own. Subscriptions services really catch up to you esp with the automatic renewals so I have to comb over those. Thanks for sharing…really great post!
Glad to have inspired a bit of a subscription audit, sometimes it can be scary how many you have x
It is so interesting to read other people’s beakdowns on what they purchase and what they spend on! We also have a cineworld subscription – which we use at least 3x a month, to get the most out of it. Having stuff like this makes days out cheaper in the long run.
That’s really a good breakdown. This post is really so informative and very helpful. I was struggling to manage the expenses lately!