I’m now in full-blown savings mode and although it’s nice to see our savings go up I just want to start looking at houses. We have started to look at areas and work out a list of places that could work for us. For example, they’re a max 30-minute drive from my work, have a direct train into London and are close by motorways for Luke’s job. But every time I go onto Rightmove or Zoopla I find houses which look just right. And I don’t want to keep finding things I love but we can’t even think about looking at. So we’re trying to put a hold on looking until the new year when we may be in a position to start booking viewings.
We have an idea in our minds about how we want to approach house hunting. Although I’m fully expecting things not to go to plan 100% of the time. But here’s how I envision that we’ll start the process.
For us, we have an idea in our minds of what mortgage we should get based on what we saved and our earnings. But there is absolutely no point going to look at anything until we know 100% what we can get and that it’s not maxing out our budget. I’d rather not get the very top mortgage we can get as I don’t want our money to be stretched. So something I am going to do in the next few months is to book in an appointment to chat over our situation with someone who knows far more about mortgages than we do.
I am so bad when it comes to spending money so saving is quite a toughie for me. Thankfully I just put a large chunk of my wages away the second I get paid. So there’s less temptation, but that’s not stopped me acquiring some items (like these) for the house we don’t yet have. I am trying to be more considered and careful and only buying essential items. For me, this is things which are non-dependant on sizing/ style. So no large bits of furniture which may not work, or things which would be dependant on a particular colour scheme. They also have to be great prices and a real deal.
For example, if I spotted lawn mowers on a great deal I’d buy one as it’s something we know we’d need but have never owned. I’d also buy basics things like cutlery, plain cookware etc as we’ll need these regardless of the style.
When we do start house hunting I want to be very mindful of our budget. There is no point going to see something massively over our budget. Or something which is only open to offers over a certain amount. I’d hate to see somewhere, fall in love with it but know there’s no way we can afford it.
I want to be realistic with the process and get what’s right for us. But I know we’ll be viewing a lot (or at least I’d like to), as it’s our first time doing this so I’ll want to know all the options. So anything we know won’t work can be eliminated beforehand. When I bought my shared ownership flat I didn’t see anything else, and just jumped straight in. So I don’t have an idea of the viewings process as I was quite young when my parents moved into our current house.
Something I’ve seen Sophie Eggerton do in her viewing vlogs is looked at areas before booking a viewing. I’d happily spend an evening driving around areas and seeing where houses are before committing to anything. I’m sure there are some places we’d say no to straight away without having to see the inside. This way we could visit the outsides of loads of places in one go and work out which ones are worth an actual viewing.
For us, we’re hoping it’s pretty much going to be a forever home so it’s got to be right. If that means it takes an extra 6 months then we’re prepared for this.
While there are loads of things we’d like I don’t want to push our non-negotiables too much. For us the things which a property has to have is:
There are loads of other things we’d like such as an open plan large kitchen/ diner, built in wardrobes in the rooms etc but these are things which would be nice but aren’t deal breakers. We don’t want to be too picky when it comes to the house as a lot of things can be changed. For example, if the bathroom isn’t great it’s not really an issue. As long as it’s useable we’d always be changing that further down the line anyway.
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We’re very much like you and have a list of non negotiables such as number of bedrooms and a garage.
I think it’s really important to have a few non negotiables but you’re definitely approaching it right having a few where there’s wiggle room
This is such a good approach to house hunting. I totally understand making yourself not look at properties until you are in a reasonable position to actually book viewing or seriously consider at least. It saves the disappointment and you don’t feel like you’ve missed out. Having a good structured appraoch is essential with anything as big as this, I really hope it continues to go well for you.
Thank you. I’m just hoping that the next 9 months or so goes smoothly with saving so we can start looking in the new year with our clear plan x
Like you I have a list of essentials and nice to haves – there is just nothing locally that sits within our price range
I am so very lucky that I was able to buy a house many years ago when it was a lot easier. I didn’t have to worry about location or facilities really. However, if I was looking at houses now, the biggest worry for me would be neighbour nuisance which causes so very much misery.
I would visit the local police station to get crime statistics for the area I was looking at.
Yeah crime statistics are a really important thing to look at. When I bought my flat I was so excited that there was a shared ownership property that I didn’t even think to check any of that so I’d do that differently next time x
This is literally the biggest issue in our life for years being tied to the city and work but at the same time hardly being able to afford a house where we need it to be. Brexit is not helping either. Arggggh!
oh how exciting! we are just in the process of buying a house! … good luck with it all lovely
Good luck with you too x
Well done you for taking things slowly and ensuring you think about everything. It’s a big step, good luck!
I can’t ever imagine being in your position! Maybe one day! I tend to always buy little bits and bobs for when I eventually move out though – although unfortunately it’s not really essential stuff and more so accessories like Mexican sugar skull coat hooks
I can’t wait to start buying the non-essential stuff, but I don’t want to decorate too much in my mind until I know what space we’re looking at. You’ll get to this position, I just managed to make some great choices in my early 20’s which helped x
There is always such a lot of things to consider when buying a house. I don’t miss those days at all! I would recommend writing everything down in a notebook 🙂